Top 10 Reasons Why We Love Babywearing

Babywearing is the practice of wearing your baby in a sling or other forms of carrier. So in celebration of the International Babywearing Week 2014, here are our top 10 reasons why we love babywearing.

  1. It's healthy. I can't imagine how much back pain I have suffered until now if I have not learned to wear my baby. I started wearing him on his first week. It was difficult for me to carry him while he nurse and rock him at the same time. So I forced myself to learn the ring sling.

More than that, it's healthy for the baby. In its early stages, the sling imitates the womb of the mother where the baby is accustomed to for nine months. It is said that the gestation period of babies are actually nine months inside the womb and nine months after birth. The environment that the carrier provides when the baby is worn helps the baby to be more organized in the new world he is in. It resembles the patterns and rhythms that he felt while he was inside the mother's womb.
 
  1. Handsfree. This is one of the benefits that I love most! I can carry my baby and still carry other things or do other things. I can go to the grocery alone with my baby, I can push the cart or carry a basket without worrying that my baby will be distressed or will get anything from the shelves. I can clean the house, work on my computer, cook sometimes, and eat while keeping my baby close. 

  1. No bulky strollers. My husband and I are not fans of strollers. They are difficult to carry around and prolonged staying in the stroller can contribute to flat head syndrome to babies. We love going around with our baby in our carriers instead of pushing a stroller around with a baby in our arms (wink*)-- you know how babies are when they are tired seating and want to be carried. With our carrier, we can easily respond to our baby's cues because he is close to us and we can teach him the things he see by pointing at them. 

  1. Baby cry less. During the first few months, my baby was not exempted in having reflux and gassy stomach, especially when I ate something that trigger a reaction in his tummy (I am breastfeeding). He would start crying and it was difficult to decipher his cries. Carrying him tummy-to-tummy in our sling allows him to feel my body heat and rhythm, then he would stop crying and doze off to sleep. Until now, when he has discomfort, we would just carry him in a sling and he would fine. 

  1. Promotes Bonding. Being close together, makes baby and parents bond easily. Especially with father-son relationship, they are very good at it because my husband learned to carry our baby in a ring sling then later on in a mei tai. They can go outside together, have a walk, or roam around the mall, no problem. Hubby enjoys carrying the baby and baby enjoys being carried, too. They love back carrying!  

  1. Successful breastfeeding. I have been breastfeeding my baby since birth until now that he is already a toddler. Babywearing promotes successful breastfeeding; and also breastfeeding on the go! I can feed him while we are malling. I can do my shopping and he can eat! If at home, I can rock him to sleep while feeding, which he likes very much. 

  1. Economical and convenient. Our sling is way less expensive that a good quality stroller; and I said above, it is convenient to use. It could fit in the baby's bag and easy to carry.

  1. Different carry positions. We can carry our baby tummy-to-tummy, side carry and back carry. He can sleep, look around and enjoy the view, nurse and sleep again!  

  1. Can grow with the baby. Our ring sling remains loyal, we first used it 3 days after birth and still using it today (15 months later). Carriers can carry babies from newborn to toddlerhood or as long as they want to be carried. I know some moms who still carry their babies in their carriers until 4 years old. Economical indeed!  

  1. Baby loves being carried. Babies are meant to be carried, if not, they should have been born already walking. Even with the Filipino adage, "Huwag sanayin sa karga," we still chose to carry our baby because we love it and he loves it, too!

In celebration of the International Babywearing Week, Nanay At Ako Boutique is sponsoring a giveaway at https://www.facebook.com/IntlBW?sk=app_228910107186452. If you want to receive a free ring sling, make sure you join the raffle.

Breastfeeding my toddler: 14 months and counting


"Breast milk is still best for babies up to two years and beyond." Well, that was the usual public service announcement after a formula milk advertisement until it became, "The use of milk supplements must only be upon the advice of health professionals."
 
On day one, I was already advised by doctors to buy formula milk for my baby but one of them said, "if there is no breast milk." I was determined to breastfeed my baby so even if I couldn't see any milk coming out of my breasts, I held my baby and allowed him to latch. I knew he was getting something because he pees and poops! We bought a small can of formula milk just to satisfy the eyes of the doctors but we never opened it; we actually brought it back to the pharmacy when we were discharged from the hospital.
 
The uninformed decision I allowed to happen on the first day was not buying the formula milk but allowing the nurses to feed my baby glucose water. I didn't know anything about it. I was not informed that it wasn't necessary and could destroy the virgin gut of my baby. It was only 10ml of water with sugar, but even though. I felt guilty of not being informed of its effect; but I was also confident I was doing the right thing because the so-called, "health professionals" advised it.
 
Nutrition
Breastfeeding is healthy for both baby and mommy. The World Health Organization recommends that babies should be exclusively breastfeed for the first six months. "Breastfeeding is an unequalled way of providing ideal food for the healthy growth and development of infants; it is also an integral part of the reproductive process with important implications for the health of mothers. Review of evidence has shown that, on a population basis, exclusive breastfeeding for 6 months is the optimal way of feeding infants. Thereafter infants should receive complementary foods with continued breastfeeding up to 2 years of age or beyond."
 
I know some moms around the neighborhood (and some even some friends) who gave birth almost the same time like me but who did not exclusively breastfeed their babies or have given up so early and mixed feed or formula feed. I have noticed that their babies are more sickly that at least once or twice their babies were hospitalized. I am not saying that my baby did not have a fair share of sickness but he can easily cope and we were never confined to the hospital. The best thing about breastfeeding is the fact that nutritional components of breast milk changes depending on the needs of the child--even antibodies of the mother can be passed through breast milk; and the mother can still breastfeed even if she is sick, and that will transfer more immunity to the baby!

It's healthy for moms, too, as it said to lower the risk of breast cancer and prevents postpartum depression. Also, many mothers that I know are having hard time in losing postpartum weight. Well, one of the benefits of breastfeeding is it helps in losing weight! I can say that in four months postpartum, I took out most of my pre-pregnancy shorts and jeans and they fit me again. No need to change wardrobe!
 
Bonding Time
Breastfeeding has always been the best bonding time I have with my growing baby, even if it becomes more difficult now as he grows older--the bites when he is teething, the pushing and pulling, the wrestling (yes, you read it right). But how I love to hold his hands, brush his hair and cheeks, teach him to count, tell stories, sing hymns, recount his day's activities, kiss him on the forehead, clip his nails, check my phone and emails (yes, even that), and feed him, and doze off to sleep together.
 
Economy
More than being the best food I can give my baby, it is also economical. I cannot imagine how buying weekly or monthly worth of formula milk would hurt our budget. "Wala akong pera, unahin ko muna gatas ng anak ko (I do not have money, I would prioritize buying my baby's milk)," is the usual litany of parents. There are a lot of things they can no longer buy for themselves or their household because their budget are constrained with the high prices of formula milk.
 
I admit that I bought expensive bottles, breast milk storage bags and containers, and breast pumps just to sustain breastfeeding (breast milk feeding) when I need to be away from my baby for work. To sum up, I may have spent around P10,000 in all; but if I compare it to buying formula milk, that amount of money have only lasted for 10 cans good for 5 months! I have been breastfeeding for 14 months now and it looks like we are not weaning anytime soon.
 
Taking Pride
"Breastfeeding is difficult but it is the best; and it is the sacrifice I am willing to take for my baby." That is my standard spiel whenever people ask me why I still continue to breastfeed and feed my baby breast milk even when I am away. I am no longer offended even if some people ask why my baby still feeds on my breast and does not take the bottle (and when they say bottle, they mean formula). I take pride carrying my ice chest with the note, "Breast Milk: Handle with Care" whenever I am on a trip. I would discuss breast milk feeding and pumping in another post.
 
My goal is to breastfeed as long as I can and as long as my baby wants! If it'll be in 2 or Grade 2, it doesn't matter, but nutrition and budget matters!
 
Read more on exclusive breastfeeding here: http://www.who.int/nutrition/topics/exclusive_breastfeeding/en/
 
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